OP -- you listed a bunch of requirements for the BCD and now I'd like to ask you to:
a. Explain why you have each requirement; and
b. Rank them in importance.
Students often ask my advice as to what gear they should get and I try to get them to answer those (and other) questions so that they can them make the best (or least worst) choice for themselves. ALL gear has trade-offs so you need to understand what those are and how they fit with your wants and needs.
I, for one, am most intrigued that your wife's requirements do not include:
a. "Dive-ability" (that is, does it help or hinder my diving); and
b. Transportability (as it appears to be primarily for travel diving).
Good luck on finding the right one.
a. Explain why you have each requirement; and
b. Rank them in importance.
Students often ask my advice as to what gear they should get and I try to get them to answer those (and other) questions so that they can them make the best (or least worst) choice for themselves. ALL gear has trade-offs so you need to understand what those are and how they fit with your wants and needs.
I, for one, am most intrigued that your wife's requirements do not include:
a. "Dive-ability" (that is, does it help or hinder my diving); and
b. Transportability (as it appears to be primarily for travel diving).
Good luck on finding the right one.