The only 18Lb wing I am familiar with is the Oxycheq Mack V, which I understand uses the same hole pattern as my 30 Lb. I dont have your model Miller harness so cant check spacing for sure but I see four options.
One: Cut new slots in the Miller Harness rubber pad to accept 2" cam bands. Enlarge/create new slots to fit the wings slots. You might have to use 2" cam bands or 2 hose clamps/slot in the future for bailout bottles. The rubber is fiber reinforced so to you wont compromise strength. It shouldnt be a problem with your Miller Blue Backpack Harness. I wouldnt modify a North Sea Bell or Navy Safety Harness due to certification.
The best way I have found to cut slots in the Miller backplate rubber is to chuck a hole punch into a drill press and make holes at the ends of the slot you want to create. Drop the speed to <500 RPM for ¼" or smaller punches. Then cut the section out in between the holes with a straight edge and Exacto knife. This prevents propagating tears and looks pretty good.
Two: Use hose clamps to attach to the scuba bottle. You might have to punch two holes in the wings center fabric. This wouldnt be too inconvenient on a liveaboard that fills the same bottle the whole trip during your surface interval. Not so great if you have to switch bottles every dive.
Three: Another lighter weight and compact option is to use the
OxyCheq Ultra Lite Travel Plate. (they make other colors if you care) I have a black one with no plans to use it if you want to try it out.
Four: I will use a 1980s blow-molded back pack for warm-water travel on my 30 Lb wing. I find it more comfortable than the Oxy-travel plate. It is only slightly heavier and larger. I add a second cam band through the hand holes and it aligns with the Oxy wing, which has very long slots. They are much closer than standard spacing but rock solid. You can still buy them with a molded handle on top.
XS Scuba Standard Tank Backpack
Aqua Tank Back Pack with Strap
I think Trident sells just the plastic part without the webbing or cam band for a lot less. This image is of the back pack with an old wing.
Hopefully some combination of these thoughts will lead you to a solution.