I dive with my wife. I usually use more gas than she does, but we don't share to equalize use and wouldn't plan to do it in the future. If one of us needed to share gas because something unplanned happened then that would be the end of the dive. We would surface, at an acceptable ascent rate and with a safety stop if possible.
We don't do detailed dive plans but plan to arrive at safety stop depth with at least 500 psi or 50 bar. We have a pretty good idea of when to start our ascent depending on dive depth. If we are in a group and there is a possibility that my gas use will mean that we need to ascend before the rest of the group, we let the DM/guide know that and assure her that we are fine on our own. We always get her attention and signal that we are low on air before ascending.
That's a lot of words to come to my point. If the buddy team in question plan ahead to share gas, allow for that in the plan and dive their plan then I guess it's OK. My tendency though would be to consider other ways to increase the gas supply....larger tanks, pony, etc.