Words are a very powerful thing. When used one way, they can give birth to a new nation, when used another way they can cause tremendous harm. It is how and when the words are used that makes the difference.
Calling a wounded vet a Stroke because he had a BP/W system, but required a quick release to get in and out of it because of his injuries is plain wrong. At the time this happened, we were discussing DIR and this person came over along with a few friends, broke into the conversation, and stated that You are not DIR, you are a stroke! DIR does NOT use quick releases, they are a death trap! Now, no one in our group claimed to be DIR, we were simply discussing the configuration, nothing else. The fact that the majority of the vets were using as close to a DIR configuration as they were physically able, says alot of how they feel about the system. The other group just cut in and made the statement. When we tried to explain the situation, they just walked away saying "Stupid Strokes don't get it" Please do not try to defend this particular group, because you can't. They were simply wrong. We do not blame the entire DIR community for the actions of these few people, nor do we believe that they represent the majority of DIR divers. We truly believe the greater DIR community would have offered to help our vets any way they could - DIR or not. However, it takes only a few bad apples to ruin it for everybody. The word Stroke has been used by some members of the DIR community in the past and there is no call for it.
These words did hurt, and they hurt the very people who paid a great price to preserve the very right to say them. Yes, they were only words, but they were paid for in blood. That makes them important, and in this case at least, it wasn't the Noob's who didn't get it, it was the self professed DIR divers who were totally clueless - and chose to remain so rather than take advantage of helping out and teaching.
This is not a flame against DIR or anybody who utilizes this system. It is an excellent system that works extremely well. It is a bash against a small group who claim to represent the system, and think they are so far above everyone else that they can act like this. It is something we all need to correct. Here is a suggestion (and it's only a suggestion) How about making a "ruling" or what ever word the DIR community agrees upon that anyone calling other divers names, like "stroke" is simply NOT DIR!
I for one who used to dive DIR but can no longer because of injuries (mine are from an MVA, not military service) would be very greatfull.
Thank You in advance.
Safe Diving,
George